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065: Reframing Our Theology of Intimacy with Erin Moniz

July 29, 2025 • Season 3 • Episode 65

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Can we have a conversation about intimacy in the church and have it not be...weird?

In this week's episode, I speak with college chaplain Rev. Erin Moniz about her book, Knowing and Being Known. She proves that, yes, we can talk about intimacy in a way that feels approachable, inclusive, and inviting to all without making it awkward. You will love Erin's framework that defines healthy intimacy through the lens of the gospel, differentiating it from economic—what's-in-it-for-me—relationships that ultimately leave people feeling more isolated. This is a hope-filled conversation that elevates the experience of intimacy beyond sex, and will speak to single adults and married couples alike.

Get the full show notes and links here. 📄

Guest Spotlight ✨

Rev. Erin F. Moniz is a deacon in the Anglican Church in North America and Associate Chaplain and Director for Chapel at Baylor University, where she disciples emerging adults and journeys with them toward healthy, gospel-centered relationships. She is a trained conciliator, mediator, and conflict coach. She enjoys content creation, playing music, being outdoors, and narrating the inner monologue of her two cats. She lives in Waco, Texas, with her husband, Michael.

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Links & Resources 🔗

Knowing and Being Known by Erin F Moniz | Amazon | Bookshop
Alone Together by Sherry Turkel | Amazon | Bookshop
Households of Faith by Emily McGowan | Amazon | Bookshop
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Episode 038: Moving from Sexual Shame toward Sacred Play with Sam Jolman
Episode 042: Safeguarding the Church against Sexism and Abuse with Dr. Andrew Bauman

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